Going to your First BDSM Play Party
Jun 062022The kinky BDSM play party
A BDSM play party is a rally of like-minded, fetish individuals who enjoy BDSM. At this formal or informal party, people pair off into groups and enjoy doing BDSM things to one another while other kinky people watch.
Usually done in a private area that's closed to the public, it might seem hard to find and gain entrance to a BDSM party. However, once you find yourself active on lebdsm.com, you're going to see the opportunities to enjoy this unique type of sexual experience everywhere you look.
Going to a BDSM party for the first time can be scary, though. Not only is it a sexually-charged environment, but it's likely to be one where you have no idea what the standards or customs are.
How Do I Find a BDSM Party?
Finding a BDSM party is step one to getting to attend one. The easiest way to find your local BDSM parties are through your local contact on lebdsm.com. Get involved! While some people put on private play parties in their homes, most play parties are put on by BDSM groups. The easiest way to find a BDSM party is through networking and knowing what's going on.
Depending on where you live, you may need to be prepared to make a bit of a drive in order to find a play party in the near future.
As you search for parties, you'll find different "types." As you become more familiar with BDSM, you'll be able to pick them out at a glance. Large, group events will allow almost anyone to register as long as you pay the higher entrance fee. These events normally have educational courses alongside the parties. They are designed to be more like a full-service conference than an evening's enjoyment. Smaller, more-private events may have other prerequisites before you can attend, but these types of events are designed for a single evening of fun.
What Are the Requirements to Attend a BDSM Party?
Every party has its own requirements. If you're looking at attending an event for a local group, it's important that you ask or read about the requirements before attempting to RSVP for a party. Some common requirements include attending multiple munches, being vetted by a current member, attending a new member orientation, or being an active member of another reputable kink group.
Most groups will require an RSVP to the party after you meet the other prerequisites. This RSVP usually requires the revealing of your full, legal name as well as your scene name so that they may match your ID at the door once you arrive. Never show up to a play party uninvited. Always submit your RSVP if you plan on attending or be prepared to be turned away at the door. This process is for all of the party goer's safety and privacy.